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The Language of Flowers: An Index of Flowers and Their Meanings

A posy representing patience; Photo Courtesy of Flickr cc/Mann Library
A posy representing patience; Photo Courtesy of Flickr cc/ Mann Library

Below is just a sampling of what a 19th century index of flowers and their meanings would contain, but it is enough to get you started on learning the meanings of some common flowers.

Many floral dictionaries were published in the United States in the late 18th and early 19th centuries. Some were simple indexes. Others were adorned with beautiful images of flowers and supplemented with literary extracts ranging from the works of Milton and Shakespeare to popular verse.

Emily Dickinson’s source for the language of flowers was more scholarly. She owned Almira H. Lincoln Phelps’s Familiar Lectures on Botany: Explaining the Structure, Classification, and Uses of Plants, with a Flora for Practical Botanists. This book contains a section titled “Symbolical Language of Flowers,” in which Phelps explains that “besides the scientific relations which are to be observed in plants, flowers may also be regarded as emblematical of the affections of the heart and qualities of the intellect.”

Phelps regarded her list of flower meanings as a starting point. She recommended that her readers compile lists based on their own sentiments and associations. As you read through Phelps’s list, you will find that she had a lively and colorful imagination.

The Meanings of Flowers

NAME: COMMON (BOTANICAL)
SYMBOLIC MEANING
bachelor’s button (Centaurea
Hope in misery
bay (Laurus
I change but with death
bellflower  (Campanula
Gratitude
box (Buxus)
Constancy
carnation (Dianthus
Disdain; Pride
chrysanthemum, red (Chrysanthemum)  
Love
chrysanthemum, white (Chrysanthemum)
Truth needs no protestations
chrysanthemum, yellow (Chrysanthemum)
A heart left to desolation
columbine, purple (Aquilegia
I cannot give thee up
columbine, red (Aquilegia)
Hope and fear alternately prevail
cowslip (Primula)  
Native grace
crocus (Crocus)
Cheerfulness
dahlia (Dahlia)   
Forever thine
dandelion (Taraxacum
Smiling on all; coquetry
Foxglove (Digitalis)  
I am not ambitious for myself, but for you
geranium, oakleaf (Pelargonium
Give me one look to cheer my absence
geranium, rose (Pelargonium
Many are lovely, but you exceed all
goldenrod (Solidago
Encouragement
heart’s ease or Johnny-jump-up (Viola tricolor)
Forget me not
holly (Ilex
Think upon your vows
hollyhock (Alcea)  
Ambition
honeysuckle (Lonicera)
Fidelity
hyacinth (Hyacinth)
Love is full of jealousy
hydrangea (Hydrangea)  
Assuming
iris (Iris)
I have a message for you
lady’s slipper (Cypripedium
Capricious beauty
larkspur (Delphinium)  
Inconstancy
lavender (Lavandula)
Words, though sweet, may be deceptive
lemon (Citrus)
Discretion
lilac (Syringa)
First love
lupine (Lupinus)
Indignation
Madonna lily (Lilium)
Purity; With looks too pure for earth
magnolia (Magnolia)
Perseverance
marigold (Tagetes
Cruelty; contempt
mock Orange (Philadelphus)
Counterfeit; I cannot believe one who has once deceived me
monkshood (Aconitum)
Deceit; poisonous words
mountain laurel (Kalmia)
Oh what a goodly outside falsehood hath!
narcissus (Narcissus)
Egotism; the selfish heart deserves the pain it feels
nasturtium (Tropaeolum)
Honor to the brave; wit
nettle (Urtica
Scandal
olive (Olea)
Peace; after a storm comes a calm
orange flowers (Citrus)
Bridal festivity
parsley (Petroselinum)
Useful knowledge
phlox (Phlox)
Our souls are united
pine (Pinus
Time and philosophy
peony (Paeonia)     
Ostentation
rose-bud (Rosa
Confession; thou hast stolen my affections
rose, burgundy (Rosa)
Modesty and innocence united to beauty
rosemary (Rosmarinus)
Keep this for my sake; I’ll remember thee
sage (Salvia
Domestic virtues
snapdragon (Antirrhinum)
I have been flattered with false hopes
spruce (Picea)
Farewell
strawberry (Fragaria)
A pledge of future happiness
sunflower (Helianthus)  
You are too aspiring
sweet pea (Lathyrus)
Departure; must you go?
thyme (Thymus)
Less lovely than some, but more estimable
tulip (Tulipa)
Vanity; thou hast metamorphosed me!
violet, blue (Viola)  
Faithfulness; I shall never forget
violet, white (Viola)
Modest virtue
yarrow (Achillea)
To heal a wounded heart

 

From Familiar Lectures on Botany: Explaining the Structure, Classification, and Uses of Plants, with a Flora for Practical Botanists, by Mrs. Almira H. Lincoln Phelps (New York, 1852). Plant names have been updated.

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